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Premarital Coaching

Built for Success

After working with divorcing couples for over a decade I thought "There has to be a way to prevent this ".  And so I started coaching couples to prepare them for a healthy and successful marriage.

Plan for Your Marriage, Before Your Wedding

Premarital Coaching Goals

Benefits of Premarital Coaching

Benefits of Premarital Coaching

Too often couples get caught up in the excitement of planning their wedding and do not consider planning their marriage.  There is a big difference!   What ultimately happens is couples wind up in therapy down the road in times of crises or challenges. They are unprepared and unequipped to handle the issues at hand.  The journey to marriage isn’t just about planning a wedding; it’s about preparing for a lifetime together. Premarital coaching shifts the focus towards nurturing the relationship itself, fostering important skills, and understanding what contributes to marital satisfaction and longevity. 

In our sessions, I will encourage you to delve into topics that might be challenging or uncomfortable to discuss.  The focus will be on the big "Fs"- finances, family, friendship, and fight or flight tendencies. We will also look at your individual beliefs and values, sexual expectations, family dynamics, and personal histories. Addressing these topics early on helps prevent misunderstandings and resentments down the line.   The overall goals for premarital coaching:

 

Understanding Your Partner

Premarital coaching can help you understand your partner’s beliefs, values, expectations, motivations, priorities, and routines.


Setting Realistic Expectations

Coaching guides you to discuss all the important aspects of married life with your partner so that you both know what to expect. It also helps identify your strengths and weaknesses as individuals and as a couple.


Planning for the Future

Much like you and your partner would meet with a wedding planner to plan your big day, seeing a premarital coach can help you plan your marriage and your life together. 

Benefits of Premarital Coaching

Benefits of Premarital Coaching

Benefits of Premarital Coaching

Most divorces occur within the first seven years of marriage, and it's even higher in the first two years of marriage.  High divorce rates, unhealthy marriages, and, sadly, domestic abuse cases highlight the need for pre-marital coaching.  

 

Premarital coaching is designed to equip you and your partner with tools to navigate married life together.   Some of the benefits are:

 

Communication Skills

Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. Premarital coaching teaches couples to engage in active listening, express their needs clearly, and navigate difficult conversations with less reactivity and friction. It’s about understanding and being understood,

 

Conflict Resolution

Every relationship encounters conflicts. I help you both  understand your conflict styles and learn how to manage disagreements constructively. 

 

Money Matters

Financial issues are a common source of marital strife. I help you navigate the financial landscape by discussing topics like joint or separate accounts, budgeting, debt management, and spending habits. 


Navigating Sex and Intimacy

Sexual compatibility and expectations are crucial for a fulfilling marriage. Coaching provides a safe space to discuss sexual desires, frequency, and any concerns or fears, ensuring both partners feel satisfied and understood.


Understanding Marital Roles

What roles will each of you play in the marriage? Coacching helps couples clarify expectations regarding household responsibilities, decision-making, and work-life balance.


Exploring Morals, Values, and Beliefs

A couple’s values and beliefs form the foundation of their marriage. Coaching facilitates discussions on religious beliefs, definitions of fidelity, and ways to express love and trust.


Discussing Children and Parenting

Thoughts on having children, parenting styles, and approaches to challenges like infertility are important topics . These discussions help ensure that you are both on the same page regarding family planning.


Balancing Personal Space and Social Connections

Maintaining individuality within a marriage is key. Coaching addresses the need for personal space, the role of friends and family in the marriage, and setting healthy boundaries.

 

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